With MLK Day passing this last Monday I thought it fit. It's 01/22/2020 and we are starting back up with our blogs. It's been too long since the last post from either one of us and my goal is to make sure that doesn't happen maybe a once every two week thing guaranteed, with an extra one in between if something comes up or is on my or my wife's mind. We will see and go from there.
My biggest fear is my biggest motivation. Making sure my family (and family to be) is happy and healthy. PERIOD. That being said I've had dreams about our lives and how to make sure I can assure that for us all. It'll take time, but I don't think it'll take as long as people may think. Those dreams are family, business ownership, property/real estate and something to do with Costa Rica. These aspirations are big but to get to where I want our family to be, I have to dream big because if I don't I will feel like I failed my wife and family. Dreams are just basically goals unwritten. Dreams lead to goals. Goals lead to plans. Plans lead to making sure of your plans. Making sure of your plans leads to jumps.
I'll have essentially a goal board posted up on here somewhere somehow. We can track the thought process for how these things play out together, but Id have to start somewhere right? This also relates to the Chicken and the Egg post I had in the past if you don't know check out my other blog post "Great Minds Don't Always Think Alike".
Where does one start? Where one is most comfortable. For me it's in the unknown. For my wife's it's in the stable. For me it's in the real estate, no painting, no gaming, no regular job, no start something for yourself, no go back to regular job, no real estate, etc. For her it's....so while I'm in school...you working at that stable job, no nothing else, stable job? (Yes mam).
However, here's where the beauty of marriage comes into play. Divorce is an option if you leave it an option, so for us divorce is never an option. Soooooo.....I have a compromise proposal (I haven't even talked to her about it yet) that I'll let y'all know if it's applicable to us or she let's me follow through with it when the time comes or not. But after months of thinking how to accommodate both of our styles I think that I have a dream that will ease the stable mind of my wife, yet will satisfy the unknown aspects of my dreamer mentality responsibly.
With that being said I have a dream and I will someday somehow make that dream a reality. Yet, we are going to take it one day at a time and make the most of the journey.
ps positivity will only take you so far actions are more reliable.
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